Dating & Relationship

25. August 2008

What do men really want?

What do men really want? Well here’s my take on it. In my opinion this is an easy one. As women we have the tendency to unintentionally complicate things, men on the other hand are simple creatures. They need the basics to survive us however need a little bit more. Oftentimes we forget how primal [...]

24. August 2008

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Its not so black and white

It’s not so black and white: Interracial dating from the black woman’s perspective First, let me preface this by saying this was written based on secondary sources ONLY, my friends and associates. I know these generalities won’t apply to everyone but just hear me out. I am well aware that some black men, because of upbringing [...]

23. August 2008

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What makes a woman beautiful?

What makes a woman beautiful? How do you define beauty? Is it what the media tells us? Our men? Our mothers? Fathers? We are blinded by society that beauty is what we see. Physical traits only. We have all these magazines and info-commercials trying to tell us to lose weight to “look great“. Look great [...]

10. August 2008

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Can love stretch across the Country?

So you have been dating that special guy or girl for awhile now, and then, the unthinkable happened. Either you or they are moving to another city or state! What should you do? Should you try to keep the relationship going from afar? Or should you just call it quits before either of you get [...]

2. September 2008

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Imperfections

9:42am… her bags under her eyes, squints, as she opens them. he’s already looking at her, analyzing. he notices the hint of brown sugar in her pupils… the glow in her skin, which ricochets off of her natural oils. he wipes her left brow with his fingertips, admiring the unknown scar… she yawns. he reaches over and lays his head on her [...]

2. September 2008

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It’s my world

Is it really a man’s world? Are our men becoming outnumbered by us women? I’ve been hearing that a lot since I’ve moved to Atlanta. And I find that most women are using this as an excuse as to why they can’t find a good man. That cliche “ratio” rumor about it being 10 women [...]

13. August 2008

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Calling… Is He Really Interested?

To call or not to call, better yet how often? For some reason, there is no in-between for guys. We either don’t call the women we claim to be interested in, or we give new meaning to the term, “dating hotline”. Phone calling should be kept to a minimum. That’s right. Let’s examine the “minimum” [...]

6. August 2008

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Break-Up Pitfalls - Lesson Learnt

It’s over. No matter what you thought was going to happen, you’re relationship has ended. And now that all the fighting is over and all the clothes and stuff has been exchanged and you have gone you separate ways, you think you are ready to try something new. But are you? You make a point to [...]

6. August 2008

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The Great Soul Mate Debate

Is there a soul mate? Is there a certain person that you are completely perfect for in every way and you two are destine to bump into one another and it is completely out of your hands? Or is the idea of a ‘soul mate’ been created by Hallmark to sell more Valentines’ Day cards [...]

18. March 2008

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Habits and Hang-ups

Has your love life been heading southward for awhile now? Aren’t sure why you are attracting all the wrong types of people? Are you just sick of the dating scene and are convinced there has to be something wrong with you? If in the back of you’re mind you answered yes to all or any of [...]

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