Dating & Relationship

What do men really want?

What do men really want? Well here’s my take on it. In my opinion this is an easy one. As women we have the tendency to unintentionally complicate things, men on the other hand are simple creatures. They need the basics to survive us however need a little bit more. Oftentimes we forget how primal [...]

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Its not so black and white

It’s not so black and white: Interracial dating from the black woman’s perspective First, let me preface this by saying this was written based on secondary sources ONLY, my friends and associates. I know these generalities won’t apply to everyone but just hear me out. I am well aware that some black men, because of upbringing [...]

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What makes a woman beautiful?

What makes a woman beautiful? How do you define beauty? Is it what the media tells us? Our men? Our mothers? Fathers? We are blinded by society that beauty is what we see. Physical traits only. We have all these magazines and info-commercials trying to tell us to lose weight to “look great“. Look great [...]

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Calling… Is He Really Interested?

To call or not to call, better yet how often? For some reason, there is no in-between for guys. We either don’t call the women we claim to be interested in, or we give new meaning to the term, “dating hotline”. Phone calling should be kept to a minimum. That’s right. Let’s examine the “minimum” [...]

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Can love stretch across the Country?

So you have been dating that special guy or girl for awhile now, and then, the unthinkable happened. Either you or they are moving to another city or state! What should you do? Should you try to keep the relationship going from afar? Or should you just call it quits before either of you get [...]

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Rejection: the Other Dirty Word

First off, everyone has felt rejection in one way or another, personally I felt rejected about three weeks ago. And if someone is saying that they have never felt any rejection, then there is a good chance that they have lived in a cave in Siberia or possible in the back of toilet, cut off [...]

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Online Dating: Yeah or Nay

Is your love life ready at a low point in your life? Are you meeting all the wrong people when you go out? Is dating become more work then it really should be? If you have answered ‘yes’ to any of these or are just feeling down about finding the special someone, maybe this is [...]

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Break-Up Pitfalls - Lesson Learnt

It’s over. No matter what you thought was going to happen, you’re relationship has ended. And now that all the fighting is over and all the clothes and stuff has been exchanged and you have gone you separate ways, you think you are ready to try something new. But are you? You make a point to [...]

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The Great Soul Mate Debate

Is there a soul mate? Is there a certain person that you are completely perfect for in every way and you two are destine to bump into one another and it is completely out of your hands? Or is the idea of a ‘soul mate’ been created by Hallmark to sell more Valentines’ Day cards [...]

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