To call or not to call, better yet how often? For some reason, there is no in-between for guys. We either don’t call the women we claim to be interested in, or we give new meaning to the term, “dating hotline”. Phone calling should be kept to a minimum. That’s right. Let’s examine the “minimum” Think about your past dating scenario, did more phone calls lead to her desiring you? Most likely not!
Now it might be a little hard to understand, but opposite from the routine phone-blasts many men present, women “a grown woman” look for sincere phone calls that show desire, thoughtfulness and time management. Besides you have to remain somewhat of a challenge to her “challenge, us male don’t think of challenge, females do and we must present exactly that”. If a woman expects you to call too often, you need to do exactly the opposite, its that simple.
These phone calls or emails don’t have to be 3-hour talk-a-ton, or 2-page soliloquies. Two quality phone calls during the week, is 89.9-times better than five sorry ones in two days.
Lets Hear from the females! What is the best approach in calling and showing true interest?
September 17th, 2008 at 9:10 pm
See- the way I feel about it… if he is interested, he will call. If he doesn’t call, he isn’t that interested. As far as calling a woman- I determine him to be more interested if he calls me more instead of say, simply returning a phone call.
In this new age- guys rather text than make contact ans that is a quick turn off to me…