Dating & Relationship

What makes a woman beautiful? How do you define beauty? Is it what the media tells us? Our men? Our mothers? Fathers? We are blinded by society that beauty is what we see. Physical traits only. We have all these magazines and info-commercials trying to tell us to lose weight to “look great“. Look great for whom? Why not be secure and happy with the way you are? Am I supposed to look like the model on the cover of Maxim or the beauty of the week on Jet? Or am I supposed to just be me. If you catch me going to the gym that’s because I want to define the beauty of my health. Longer living. Not because I want to impress society with my shape. Getting breast implants does not cure low self-esteem. Wearing pounds of make-up cannot disguise your grief. Photoshopping yourself a new body doesn’t escape the fact how you really look. Wearing provocative clothing will only grasp the wrong attention and make a man miss out on the real you. Granted there are a lot of physical features that can make a woman beautiful. We admire that each day with women we don’t know. But are they truly “beautiful”? For starters, it has nothing to do with her exterior presence. That’s just decoration, an introduction, to what’s really inside. Beauty comes from within. Her style. Her grace. Her swagger. The depth you find in the way she looks at you. How her soul softly escape through her lips. How she gently touches your arm when she’s flattered. The way she blushes when she speaks upon embarrassing moments in her life. The way she makes you feel. Her kisses. The things she chooses to converse about. Her supportive nature and keen sense of knowing when to give you comfort. Her beauty is defined by her classy ways, confidence and self-esteem. The witty way she makes you laugh. Her admirable originality & creativity. The inner strength she provides for herself as well as others when needed. And her intelligence? By FAR she will never cease to amaze you with the knowledge she possess. The way she carries herself and maintain good health. Embracing her flaws as uniqueness. Never giving up and standing strong in what she believes in. A mother. A love maker. A survivor. That’s what makes a woman beautiful.

What makes a man beautiful? You think it’s not possible for beauty to reside within a man? Sure we see plenty of fine, good-looking, handsome, sexy ass man around. Some are as humble as they can be and others are cocky sons of bitches. Walking around so angry at the world. So angry at women. Being homophobic. Trying to give off that “thug” or “asshole” mentality & persona by living the street life and not wanting to be settled down. Flashing rings, clothes, cars. Thinking that’s the “manly” way of doing things. You were fooled. That’s not an example of a beautiful man. You wanna know when you captured the essence of a beautiful man? We bite our bottom lip when he walks by. The smell of his cologne gives you goose bumps all over. Right about now, materialistics is not an issue for you. His financial standing is irrelevant. The type of car he drives, doesn’t matter. Nor his penis size. It’s about his will, his yearn to want more out of life. The drive to keep rising to the top no matter how hard “the man” tried to bring him down. Respect. Respect for himself, respect for life and the respect for women. He will die for his mother, kill for his daughter, be a role model for his son and represent for his father. He will not succumb to the illegal acts & he wouldn’t DARE raise a hand to a woman. The mother of his child, no matter the circumstances, will be treated with the utmost respect. He is a soul-seeker, a giver. It’s undeniable that his mind is empowered with charisma, humor, intellect and reality. He is not impressed easily & the presence of another man just like him will never intimidate him. When you talk, he listens. When he talks, you absorb. His strong hands, his stare, his voice, his caress…just the thought of him makes your clit jump. He takes care of himself. Well groomed. Goes to the doctor for his check-ups. Get his teeth cleaned. An avid user of condoms. He’s affectionate to those that deserve it and endearing to the ones that need it. When he smile at you with those pearly white teeth you have no choice but to smile back. The way he touches your cheek during an intellectual conversation. His gaze is hypnotic. You feel safe in his immediate environment. You are comfortable. You trust him. You become warm. All because of this man. He is the personification of love. That’s what makes a man beautiful.